Sunday, November 28, 2010

Parent Required

 Small and simple method of case analysis dawdle
time to help children recognize and enhance the child's concept of time
case: My son just 7 years old, after school, we find him doing everything slowly and let him brush your teeth, call the five times, a look back, he stood there playing with toothpaste cap na; feet, too stunned to wash for half an hour; inside the toilet can also play for a while; bath more slowly, the more you shout out, he Vietnam does not come out; so using the toilet, shower, work do not have much time, and not Fannong bags, rubber is sit there and play, or else to eat, every day is always a hurry before going to sleep homework.
reasons: one expert told me, after all, very small children, they often have no concept of time, do not know how precious time that have plenty of time, the total can be used up. Therefore, they do not do anything anxious. For such a big child, should give him to talk about the story, through the story of what your child feel the time and help children establish a sense of time.
way: I found a lot of time and tell the story He listened, and told him what time, what is effective, what is the relationship of time and efficiency. I gave him about the treasure the time the story of many celebrities. He said he grew up wanted to be scientists, I say yeah, but you know Scientists do have a common characteristic is that they are to waste time. So, I asked a series of stories of scientists, and they read together. We both also found a lot of books and time in the motto, written on paper, posted on the wall at home, always inspired. Now, I think as the child grew, and he strengthened the concept of time than before.
develop Xiangxi schedule, teaching children time management
case: daughter is a dawdle love children, things very slow. Because of this bad habit, she is always late to school in the morning at home by my lecture, to the school after the teacher criticized. Moreover, a reflection of the teacher, her class to write very slowly, looking at the textbooks, that is, do not write, or play with a pencil, or playing with rubber, 10 minutes later, she did not write a word.
reason: According to expert analysis, mainly of our children lack proper training. she was young Most of her affairs arranged by the old man, just go to school to know the time how it was. but you know go know,UGG boots clearance, for children, it is very difficult to turn into action, and we just put on the child's dissatisfaction with the performance of the complaints on the . Later, I see, rebuke, chattering is not a solution, but some of the children-related training, so that she will do and can quickly complete their own thing to do, so as to solve the fundamental problem. < br> method: My child and I developed a work schedule with the above schedule lists the day, such as what time to get up, when to eat breakfast,cheap UGG boots, when to wash, when to play and so on,UGG bailey button, the content is very detailed. Meanwhile, we also entered into a mutual supervision plan, let her supervise me, I'll supervise her father to do the referee. to do so some time later, we began to record on the form used to do everything a specific time. This One advantage is that do the same thing next time, we can see who is a big improvement.
more enthusiasm for your child, I often pretend to let her win. In this way, her daughter with confidence, often take the initiative speed up the work rate. and now she has learned to the situation according to the urgency of time and work to adjust the speed, basically have an initial capacity of a reasonable use of the time, late, could not finish the job almost extinct phenomenon.
good for children environment, let the children concentrate on their work
case: daughter is always doing things not concentrate, easily attract independent firm. instance, is homework, home grown word,bailey UGG boots, she would take Xiacha say something; was painting the picture, I heard the voice of television, will leave half of the picture painted, go look at the TV. and so she was watching TV back, even the brushes do not know where the lost, so he started looking around pen.
reasons: the case of my daughter experts do the analysis later, that the problem mainly lies in who our parents first, because children learn or do anything else, we did not give her a quiet environment, the total adult is the TV to watch TV, chat in the chat, so that the child is difficult to stop and concentrate on their work. In addition, the children go home after school, the family often neglect the child himself is not a strong sense of time and self-control, so often while doing their homework while playing, and slowly developed a bad habit of dragging his feet.
Methods: We discuss the good, the children do something, to try to create a quiet environment for her to exclude irrelevant factors, so that children can concentrate on doing thing. Over time, we found relatively effective, the children work more focused, and much faster speed.
competition for children to find a partner to introduce competition in the family
case: my son the whole days of work sluggishly, and at night homework, write for two hours. Results sleep late every day, morning and get up. Every day I worried for their children, afraid he was late, afraid he could not finish assignments, examination scripts afraid of him too slow. But, no matter what I am anxious as he was slowly, and does not worry.
reasons: experts believe that my son's dawdling between primary and personality of such children, parents can lead them to make some more time-related activity or competition activities. to do something, how long, set in advance, and then with the fastest speed for the quality and quantity. ex post evaluation with parents and children can adjust the requirements for the next time do better. on the young child, if the timing can be read together with the child, time memory, time answer, the little time labor competition, would be better.
Methods: In order to overcome my son's little procrastinator problems, I introduced the competition mechanism in the home, many things so games, so start with something to interest him, and also much faster. For example, his homework, I said to him, I want to play him My job is drawing, I hope his job is completed to time, I can finish the painting figure; he'll ask someone to play at home, I let them race homework, see who write faster and better; in the morning get up, we have games, competitions to see who he and his mother dressed quickly; we race fast water brushing, who shower quickly, who back the text quickly and so slowly that not only get rid of his habit of dragging his feet, but also By winning turn, exercise a child's mind, things improved the sensitivity of children. Now, the son gradually adapt to the fast-paced work habits.

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